Hence, the purpose of this essay is four-fold: (a) to synthesize the literature on fathering, gender, and nontraditional family structures from a communication perspective; (b) to theorize the construct of the stay-at-home father; (c) to develop a model to understand a constitutive view of the tensions of fathering discourses and gender discourses at both the societal and relational levels; and (d) to privilege the standpoint of the stay-at-home father as a valuable alternative model for 21st century families.